Communication is our Super Power
Some specific examples, of typical (ineffective) communication in a car:
- Communication is reduced to honking, or gesticulating - rudely or otherwise. Consider the attempt to "beep" vs. HOONNNK - it's absurd!
- Eye contact is hard at best, often impossible due to glare and speed
- You are reduced to "body language" of "inching forward," or moving the vehicle aggressively (or if you are kind - perhaps allowing someone to pass)
- You often only have fleeting moments for that communication because:
a. You are likely travelling at some speed so only are close enough for audible or visual communication very briefly
b. The press of the queue behind you, including the large amount of space your vehicle blocks in the road way, and the willingness (as well as cultural acceptedness) of blaring horns behind you, doesn't permit you to stop and communicate more clearly.
No wonder many drivers seem frustrated and inconsiderate! Compare that to walking on the sidewalk, or biking at lower speeds (10km/h to 20km/h):
- You can speak to someone - in a friendly voice, or urgently, sharply, etc - the full-range of human vocal communication & nuance
- You can clearly make eye-contact, and any body language you want to communciate - the full range of human gestures & body language. Perhaps a bit less if your hands are steering a bike.
- You can stop, and engage in a fuller communication - either friendly or to express your discontent. Assert yourself. Even if the person walks away - you have a much more innate sense of whether you were heard.
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I'm writing this from a place of self-reflection. I drive a lot at times, and do try to ride my bike a lot, as well as transit, but I'm very much pointing the finger at myself too. I'm not always a friendly driver.
Cars are great at times. They are useful for medium to longer trips. However the more people populate a given city, the bigger problem they become. Cities get less pleasant to be in. More space, bollards, sidewalks, and infrastructure needs to be built to keep the rest of us safe from the cars & trucks. If you think about it - bollards, sidewalks, "pedestrian overpasses" are all car infrastructure. We wouldn't need them if we didn't have the cars & trucks there!
The reason we have that infrastructure is to protect the people who aren't in cars, from people who are in cars - behaving badly.
Why are the people drive cars & trucks behaving badly? Because we have become less human.
So walk more. Take transit more. Get a bike, or an eBike, and be the change you want to see in the world.
I'm trying. ✌️